Friday, October 3, 2014

Happy Birthday Baby Grantham Scott Bishop 3/25/14 5:16 pm

The morning started with Garrity calling for mommy! Daddy went in and tried to console her, he told her that mommy was resting. But I went in and snuggled her and we talked about whether or not we thought baby Bingo would be born today!

Daddy was off work because of the events of yesterday. Daddy had a dentist appointment, and I took Garrity to Sally's.  I chatted with Sally for a while and hugged Garrity a dozen times before heading out. 

Daddy called when I left and we decided I should run errands first and then come home so we could watch a movie, walk the course again, and work in your room. 

So off to Walmart! I got the essentials and tried to print pictures off my phone (with no luck!?). I started to feel the most minor twinges of what I had felt yesterday. So I sent daddy a text telling him that Walmart was working, and I was going to continue to wander around. 

After I checked out I left and then remembered I was supposed to get a Red Box movie. I turned around by Pizza Hut and headed back. I rented two recent award winning movies: American Hustle and                  . 

While inside I decided to randomly go ahead and grab some chips (big bag from the back of the store) and was starting to feel a tad bit slower, kinda like yesterday. So I headed out to the car again. When I got home, I pulled up the garage and left my car outside so I could lift the back and get my groceries. When I raised my arm to pull the lift gate I felt a little ploop and what felt like the first gush of a period. I knew immediately that my water had just broke or had just broken. I wasn’t sure if the pain would immediately start or if it would be gradual. I had been wearing  pad for several days and therefore the little gush was quite contained. 

I waddled on into the house and called for Bo, shared my exciting news with a smile, and headed to the bathroom. I then called Dr. Russell and she said to go on into the ER and they would admit me etc. I had just gotten tuna from Subway and chips and some snacks for our day of rest…so Bo and I scarfed down our lunch, took a few pre-baby pics and headed to the hospital…movies and snacks in tow! The car ride was quite uncomfy. ANY pressure (think:sitting in a car) was not pleasant…so I kind of rested on my elbow while we drove to the hospital.

My ER experience this time was much different. We first went in to admissions and they told us that we HAD to go through the ER. With Garrity I was doubling over in pain and had to rush deliriously to the bathroom to dry heave into the dirty toilet!? With this baby, I was cool, calm, and collected and in zero to very minimal pain. I told the lady what she needed to know and was very alert etc. A nice male nurse came to escort us to the elevator and up to the maternity ward. He even commented on how calm we were and that this must not be our first go-round J

Once we were in our suite, the nurse came in and gave me a gown to put on. I stepped into the bathroom and changed and then snapped a few photos of our room! I felt totally in control and wanted to savor the moments of the day forever! With Garrity I was so out of it, that I don’t remember so many of the details, and details I do remember were made up because they never happened according to Bo!

 The nurse checked me and put a heart rate monitor on my tummy and the nurse was immediately concerned about the baby’s heart rate! She had me drink an entire little jug of water and started an IV with fluids. I was dilated to a 4, so the nurse and I worked out a play to keep the meds at bay until I was in dire need. 

My goal was 3:30 and so I had anand a half or so to wait and enjoy some down time. Bo pulled out our laptop and popped in one of the movies and we proceeded to have our little date! As the movie progressed, my labor pains also progressed. 

Around 3:00pm I was starting to feel a little more than uncomfortable and asked for the shot of meds in my IV. The nurse explained that the meds would make me feel a little woozy…she said maybe like a couple of glasses of wine before dinner. Whoa was she a little wrong!!! I felt like I was floating and sleepy and carsick all in one! I think it affected the baby too because we would both seem to doze off and then my contractions would hit and the baby would jolt awake and the pain from the jolt was pretty intense. I tried to doze off and want to sleep so bad…but the fear of the jolt was pretty awful. 

Finally it was pretty intense and I asked for the nurse to come back in and I was ready for the epidural…I was sure of it. So, she made the call and I had to wait. I leaned into the counter and laid my hands on the counter and tried to put my head down and tried to stretch out and relieve some of the pressure. I leaned over the bed and tried everything to relieve the pressure. I tried to sway from side to side and the pain was mostly in my bottom and my lower back and thighs. 

The nurse told me to visit the restroom prior to the epidural and it was pretty painful to sit on the potty, and pretty painful to walk, then when the anesthesiologist came in and asked me to SIT ON THE BED, I was pretty sure that was a request that I wouldn't be able to fulfill! Somehow though, I was able to get up on the edge of the bed and I was asked to lean forward into Bo and wait for the pain to melt away. I was just praying that I could hold still through another contraction and also praying that the epidural would actually work. It did!

Once the epidural was complete, the nurse came back in and checked me…I was dilated to a NINE!!! The nurse said that it was no wonder it was tough for me to sit on the bed…that the baby’s head was there and he was ready to come out! She also told me that the baby was a little distressed and asked me to roll over to one side and they gave me some oxygen, and the baby was fine.


The nurse called Dr. Russell and they wheeled in a baby cart at 4:50pm and it was baby time! When Dr. Russell came in, I was ready! I requested a mirror again, and wanted to have our phone ready for videos and pictures! 

The actual pushing was a breeze and we met our beautiful baby Grantham Scott Bishop at 5:16pm 3/15/14! 





































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